Last week I shared with you the first 5 secrets to maximize the value of a conference, and this week I will continue on, starting with...
6. This is hard.
I’d be thinking how can I do this?
Think of someone you love.
How much you would do for them?
Look in the mirror.
Who do you see?
I want you to love that person enough
- to take care of your body
- to get enough sleep
- to have enough sex
- to feed yourself fuel and positive energy so that you overflow
- to laugh
- to have fun
I want you to SECRET 6 = love yourself enough to trust your truth.
Be authentic to who you are and what makes you happy.
What would you do right now if you loved yourself as much as your child or partner?
7. Immediately, I have all these doubts and fears echoing in my head.
I need to do more research, learn, get more comfortable..
When you are stuck in conflict, I want you to do one thing:
SECRET 7 = MAKE A CHOICE, CHOOSE YOU.
Who do you want to be?
Who is the future you in your story?
Choose between these choices:
Past OR Future
Stay the same OR Change
Fear OR Faith
Alone OR Network
Stuck OR Free
Victim OR Hero
I ask myself
What would the person I want to be in my FUTURE do?
Then do it.
Even if it is not you now.
Because when you do it,
it becomes you.
And you step into your future.
8. I know what you are thinking.
I don’t have time or space to think.
Are you a lone wolf?
Don’t do everything alone and on your own.
SECRET 8 = Learn how to
Leverage, delegate, collaborate and work as a team.
Let someone else do it for you and appreciate their help even if it isn’t exactly how you would do it.
- Mastermind groups
This is where you leverage the time, resources, experience and expertise of others to provide you opportunity and freedom.
Who can you leverage?
But what if I make a mistake?
Remember this is not medicine.
No one will die or become paralyzed or bleed to death.
This is where we learn.