Who do you know that lives the future you dream of?
We are not talking about patients or medicine here
We are here to discuss your life
SECRET 3 = Life is not medicine
It’s not cookie cutter.
It’s as unique as you.
It’s not harder than medicine.
You’ve already done something much harder, learned more, and risked more time and money than any investment you will probably ever make.
Remember who you are:
Look at what you’ve accomplished! (diplomas, board certifications, graduations)
Celebrate where you have been.
Have you celebrated what you have accomplished?
Define that as your past.
Do not limit yourself to your past.
What do you want?
4. I know what you are thinking.
I thought it too. I think it too.
Leticia has 200 doors and she is financially free and having fun.
I am not her or them.
YOU ARE NOT THEM.
We are all different and thank GOD.
One of them is enough.
WE have different lives, goals, dreams and what makes us happy.
You really don’t want to be them.
We tend to see the things we want and imagine it’s the life we want but many of those people don’t even have the lives they want.
If you were given the choice of their childhood, parents, marriages, bodies, inner conversations and fears
or your own,
most of us would choose our own.
Give yourself grace.
Write this down:
SECRET 4 = Stop torturing yourself.
Sean Stephenson said Compare leads to despair.
Do not compare yourself to the others around you.
Syndicators work in real estate full time all day for years or decades.
You have a full time job or a part time job.
Instead, I want you to compare yourself to who you were in your past and who you dream of being in your future.
I want you to create your own unique life that you love.
What do you dream?
5. I wanted change so bad I could taste it.
I changed where I worked from NJ to CA.
I changed from being an employee to starting my own practice.
I changed running around from 3 offices and 6 hospitals to 1 office and 2 hospitals.
But all those changes were not enough.
SECRET 5 = If I want to change my life,
I must change my mind.
I have to make different decisions.
I have to think a different way.
I must change.
Not the system.
Not my boss.
Not my job.